After several months had passed,
he just showed up one day to do his laundry. It felt so good just to
see him and know he was alive. He told us he was living in a car on
the streets of a nearby city in the middle of the winter. This was a
total shock for me. He said that he was going for days without a
shower or a meal. I would have considered this absolutely 'rock
bottom' for him, he was living in a car! The therapist mentioned that if this was a faze
it may take Rick hitting 'rock bottom' for him to change and we
didn't think he could go much lower. This was my child that was
obsessive about his appearance. He always took several showers or baths a day. He also needed to have
nice things that were the most expensive as well as the best brands
of clothing. I just didn't understand. If this didn't bring him home,
what would? We realized that he was fully entrenched in this new
lifestyle. This wasn't
going to be a passing fad. He wasn't coming back soon. He might not
come back at all.
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